BAKIT KAILANGAN ANG MATIBAY NA KAPATIRAN

ni Nancy Caluya-Nicolas

It’s  a  dog-eat-dog  world,  you know,”  ang  madalas  sabihin  ng  mga Amerikano.  Ang  literal  na  ibig  sabihin nito ay, “Sa mundong ito, kinakain ng aso ang kapwa niya aso upang mabuhay.” Sa madaling salita, kailangang maging magulang (hindi “parent” kundi “wily” ang ibig sabihin) ka. Mahusay kang mang-isa para patuloy na mabuhay, at kung minsan pa’y mabuhay nang mariwasa.

May  isa  pang  kasabihan  ang  mga Kano:  “Good  guys  finish  last.”  Yun  daw babait-bait,  kulelat.  Walang  mararating sa buhay. Kawawa. Binabanggit ito bilang isang warning: Huwag kang papatay-patay at manggulang ka kung kinakailangan para mapagtagumpayan ang buhay.

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Nancy Caluya-Nicolas, Executive Director, Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation Inc.

Sa  maraming  kapitalistang  lipunan  sa  mundo  tulad  ng  Pilipinas,  ang karaniwang kaisipan ay kailangang makaalagwa  ka  mula  sa  umpukan upang  magtagumpay.  Indibidwal  ang pagtatagumpay,  hindi  kolektibo.  Ito ang katangian ng kapitalismo—to each his/her own. Kanya-kanya.

Malakas  talaga  ang  Western  influence  sa  mga  Pilipino,  palibhasa  ay nasakop tayo ng Amerikano sa loob ng 50 taon matapos ang 333 taong pamamalakad  ng  mga  Kastila.  Pareho  namang nagkaroon ng impluwensya ang dalawa—ang Espanya sa ating kultura at ang Estados Unidos naman sa ating pulitika at ekonomiya. ‘Ika nga, Western na Western ang mga Pinoy.

Masakit  man  pakinggan  ngunit may  mapait  na  katotohanan  ang  paglalarawan  sa  mga  Pilipino  na  “utak-talangka”‘ika tayo. Ang talangka kasi ay isa-isang aakyat palabas ng basket kung ilalagaymo ang mga ito dito. May magtatagumpay kaya?

Tiyak  na  iilan  lamang,  kung mayroon  man.  Kadalasan  kasi,  gaano man  ang  pagsisikap  ay  sawi  sa  paglabas  ang  mga  talangka.  Bakit?  Dahil naghihilaan sila pababa. Bawat isa kasi ay nais manguna at makalamang. Ang suma-total,  pare-parehong  talunan  at luhaan.

Tunay  ba  tayong  ganid?  Masakit sa tenga ang salitang “ganid.” Walang sinuman ang aamin na isa siyang ganid. Galit ang lahat sa mga taong ganyan.

Ani  natin,  “Pagiging  ganid  ba ang  magpatong  nang  malaki-laki  para naman  may  kaunting  maipon?”  Para umano sa pamilya naman ito nakalaan. Sino ang hindi aayon at tatango na lamang sa ganitong pangangatuwiran?

Kadalasan,  ginagamit  natin  ito  bilang  alibi  upang  makaisa,  makaungos, makagulang  o  kahit  ang  lumabag  sa  batas.  Naalala  ko  ang  madalas  na  ikwento ng isang nakakatandang babaeng miyembro ng aming church. Aniya, ganito nangyari ang kanyang tunay na karanasan.

Sakay  siya  ng  kanilang  kotse  na minamaneho  ng  kanyang  asawa  at pumasok sila sa isang kalyehon na patungo sa unibersidad kung saan siya ay nagtuturo.  Tinatahak  nila  ang  makitid na daang “one-way” na ito nang biglang lumitaw  ang  isang  dyipni  na  sumalubong sa kanila!

Napilitang igilid nang husto ng kanyang asawa ang kanilang kotse upang magkaroon  ng  espasyo  ang  dyipning kataka-takang  dumire-diretso.  Nang magkatapatan  na  ang  dalawang  sasakyan ay inis ng tinanong ng asawa ng churchmate  ko  ang  drayber  ng  dyipni: “Pare,  one-way  ito.  Bawal  ang  ginawa mo.”

Ang  sagot  ng  jeepney  driver: “Naghahanap-buhay lang po.”

Mukhang pamilyar ba ang kwento? Kailangan   bang  manggulang, manglamang  o  gumawa  nang  illegal

upang kumita?

Ang  attitude  o  kaisipan  ng  drayber ay may pinaghuhugutang insekuridad. Hindi siya tiyak kung may kikitaing sapat  bukas.  Kailangang  gamitin ang lahat  ng  oportunidad  (o  kung  wala ay  maghanap  o  gumawa  nito)  upang mag-survive. Kasi wala siyang mapagdedependahang iba. To each his own.

Bakit hindi tayo magkaisang magtulungan upang mawala ang pangambang  magugutom  dahil   walang  tutulong? Kaya nating gawin ito. Ano  ang  ibig  sabihin  ng  “KK”  sa KKFI?  Kapatiran  at  Kaunlaran.  Ito  ang pinahahalagahan ng ating institusyon— na  ang  kaunlaran  ay  makakamit  kung tayo ay magbubuklod, magtutulungan at magmamahalan na tila magkakapatid.

Kailangan natin ang mga programa at mga gawain patungo sa pangarap na ito. Ang pananaw natin ay magkakaroon tayo ng isang lipunan kung saan walang sinuman ang may takot na mamamatay sa gutom o mananatili sa kahirapan.

Kilala  ang  mga  Pilipino  dahil  sa puso  nating  may  bayanihan.  Huwag nating  hayaang  mawala  ito.   Imbes, pagyamanin natin ito. Pagtulungan natin. Kapag nagawa natin ito, kasaganahan at kapahingahan ng isip ang damdamin ang ating makakamit

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Ang Mabubuting Nagawa ng Kapatiran sa Akin

Hunyo 2016 nang magsimula akong pumasok sa Alternative Learning System (ALS), isang programa ng Department of Education para sa mga tumigil sa pag-aaral ngunit ibig ipagpatuloy ito, humabol na makatapos ng elementarya or high school at ma-integrate muli sa pormal na pag-aaral sa eskwelahan.

Mabuti na lamang at dinala ng Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation Inc. (KKFI) ang ALS sa Tondo, Maynila kung saan ako nakatira. Napag-alaman kong mayroon pa pala akong pag-asang makapag-aral muli at maipagpatuloy ang aking pangarap sa buhay.
Noong ika-29 ng Hulyo ng taon ding iyon, naglakas-loob akong sumali sa idinaos na acquaintance party ng KKFI para sa mga mag-aaral ng ALS. Masaya ako dahil iyun ang una kong acquaintance party. Naka-rekord na ito sa talaan ng buhay ko. Memorable ito sa akin.

Pag-abot ng buwan ng Oktubre ay ginanap ang tatlong-araw na “Youth Lead, Educate, and Advocate for Development” (Y-LEAD) ng Kapatiran pa rin. Sumali ako at napili rin akong maging isang “youth leader” nito.

Nitong nakaraang Abril, ay nag-enrol ako ng Massage Therapy na livelihood training pa rin ng KKFI. Salamat sa Panginoon at nakapasa ako at nabiyayaan ng National Certification II (NC II) ng TESDA. Ginusto kong magkaroon ng kasanayan sa pagmamasahe upang madagdagan ang kaalaman at kita. Ibig kong makatulong sa aking mga magulang.

Kasunod nito, sa buwan ding iyon, ay dumalo ako sa training ng mga magtuturo ng mga bata sa summer school na ang tawag ay LikhAral (kumbinasyon ng “Likha” at “Aral”). Ito ang bersyon ng Kapatiran sa Vacation Church School ng United Methodist Church upang may kapaki-pakinabang na magawa ang mga bata ng mga komunidad at kapilya tuwing tag-araw. Bukod sa Tondo, ang LikhAral ay ginanap rin sa compound ng Kap

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Si Axel (pangalawa sa kaliwa) habang nagtuturo sa LIkhAral sa Manila North Cemetery.

atiran sa P. Paredes Street, Sampaloc at sa Manila North Cemetery.
Marami akong natutunan sa training at sa mismong pagtuturo ko mismo sa area kung saan kami ay itinoka.

Noong Hulyo 21 naman ay isa pang di-makakalimutang karanasan ang pinagdaanan ko. Ika-67 anibersaryo ng KKFI noon at ako, kasama ang mga kapwa ko estudyante ng ALS at mga iskolar ang nakasali sa patimpalak ng pagsayaw. Kami ang itinanghal na kampeon, salamat sa Panginoon! Napakasaya namin!

Noong buwan ding iyun, ay nabuo ang “care group” na kinabibilangan ng mga estudyanteng ALS at iskolar. Sobrang saya ang naramdaman ko dahil sa pagkakaroon ng care group. Dito ay malaya kaming nakakapag-bahaginan ng mga kwento ng aming buhay. Marami akong natutunan sa care group—kung paano maging isang lider-kabataan, kung paano maging isang responsableng kuya sa mga nakababata sa akin, kung paano magmahal at mahalin, tumanggap at tanggapin, at umintindi at intindihin.

Nabago ang buhay ko. Dahil sa care group, nalaman ko kung sino talaga ako. Natagpuan ko ang aking passion—ang tumulong sa mga kabataang nahihirapan at nalulungkot sa kanilang buhay.

Binigyan ako ng care group ng pagkakataon matutunan kung paano makipag-ugnayan sa ibang kabataan na tulad ko. Dati ay nahihiya akong magsalita at mag-share sa maraming tao, ngunit ngayon, dahil sa care group, lumakas ang loob ko na ilabas ang lahat ng lungkot at bagabag sa aking puso.

Habang lumilipas ang mga araw at linggo, napapalapit kami sa Panginoon. Lumalalim ang aming relasyon sa Kanya at sa isa’t isa. Ibinabahagi ko ang mga natututunan ko sa aking pamilya. Alam ko na ganito rin ang ginagawa ng mga kasama ko sa kani-kanilang pamilya.

Dahil sa care group, sa mga pagsasanay at mga karanasan ko na dulot ng Kapatiran, natagpuan ko ang aking sarili, ang aking direksyon sa buhay, at, higit sa lahat, ang Panginoon. Mabuhay ang Kapatiran!

THIS CEMETERY IS FOR THE DEAD … AND THE LIVING

By Bellarme Milosi Lumbwe

 

Cemeteries are supposed to be where the dead are placed to rest in peace. That is the common and widely accepted knowledge among many of us, including myself… That is, until lately. When I came to the Philippines, I discovered that there can be life in a cemetery. If ever you visit this country, you might come across Manila North Cemetery (MNC).

I have been to Congo, Zambia, Zimbabwe, South Africa and even the US of A and witnessed how people struggle with life, but not to the extent of spending it in a cemetery.

Manila North Cemetery sounds like a place for the dead. Well, that’s true, but with a slight difference to the common notion. Amid the daily burial ceremonies and practices there, people were also going about their own lives—working, eating together, celebrating special family occasions, courting a person you are attracted and all the rest of normal human activities.

I was told the relatives of the dead have to pay people to watch over and maintain the family grave, or else the grave might be transformed into somebody’s house.

There are many sorts of reasons why the poor people of Manila prefer to live there. The lot is free and there is available water, albeit unsafe. One can also avail of free electricity; all it takes is the gut and some climbing and electrical skills to tap illegally in an actual electrical post.

What I’m telling you is true and I have seen it with my own eyes. People choose to stay in MNC for a reason—they have raised their families there and to look for another place to stay is tantamount to uprooting their children from their natural habitat.

It is true that children did not choose to be born there. In fact, it is not a very safe place to raise children and families. And the dangers are very real.

Is there anything which can be done? For sure, yes! Throughout the Bible, God encourages His children to serve others. I purposely avoid to use the term “helping others” but I choose “serving others” because as Jesus Christ said in Matthew 25: 40: “The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.”

Since it is unthinkable for us to help Jesus, we should instead serve others with our talents, resources, and energies.

You can choose to serve others on your own; that’s will still be fine with God, I think. But sometimes, you might choose to join other people or organizations to serve others, especially when you have seen them at work, sustaining lives of people in such areas.

You can join hands with us at Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation Inc. (KKFI) to serve others through various programs that the organization implement in this community. Here are some active programs which KKFI runs in MNC to bring hope to the hopeless one, the Supervised Neighborhood Play (SNP), Child Development Center (CDC), Alternative Learning System and the newly implemented program “Happy Wives, Happy Community.”

You are always welcome to join our service to God by serving others.

 

MAPALAD NA KABATAAN

ni Margoh Bronzal Dela Paz

 

Isa ako sa mga iskolar ng Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation Inc. (KKFI) mula pa noong 2015 sa Alterntive Learning System o ALS bilang mag-aaral sa sekondaryong antas. Sa kasalukuyan, pinag-aaral pa rin ako ng KKFI sa kolehiyo.

Kami ng mga kapwa ko iskolar ay isinali ni Ma’am Nancy C. Nicolas, Executive Director ng KKFI, bilang isang grupo na sasayaw sa gaganaping ika-67 taong anibersaryo nitong ika-20 ng Hulyo, 2017. Ito ay kumpetensya ng pagandahan ng presentasyon sa pagsayaw.

Limang grupo ang naglaban-laban, kabilang dito ang mga kawani ng KKFI. Mga usong sayaw sa iba’t ibang dekada—mula 1950s hanggang 1990s—ang gagawin.

Nang malaman ko na sasayaw kami ay medyo kinabahan ako dahil unang pagkakataon ko itong gagawin sa harapan ng mga tao. Alam kong kabilang dito ang mga kasapi ng Board of Trustees.

Pero nasabik na rin ako pati na ang mga kapwa ko iskolar nang malaman namin na sa amin ang mga sayaw noong 1990s. “Alam natin ito!” sabi name, excited. Nang malaman naming may malaking premyo ang mananalo, lalong lumipad nang matayog ang kasabikan naming.

Hindi naging madali sa akin ang pagpapraktis ng sayaw. Hindi talaga ako marunong sumayaw. Hirap akong sundan ang mga itinuturong dance steps. Hindi ko rin alam ang tamang pag-pitik ng paa’t kamay. Maging sa paggiling ng baywang, ay di ko mahanap ang tamang tiyempo.

Salamat kay Kuya Pio Leanado, ang aming instraktor sa pag sayaw, dahil kung hindi sa mahusay at mapagpasensyang pagtuturo tuwing Lunes at Miyerkoles sa loob ng ilang linggo ay hindi kami nakapag-sayaw nang maayos.

Hindi madali para sa amin ang pageensayo. Kung minsan ay hindi kompleto ang mga miyembro ng grupo dahil may kanya-kanyang iskedyul sa eskwelahan. Gayunpaman, walang bumitaw. Kahit na ginagabi na ng pag-uwi sa bahay ay pinagtiyagaan naming ang pagpapraktis. Hindi kami sumuko.

Sa loob ng isang buwan ng pagsasanay ay unti-unting naging maayos ang aming pagsasayaw. Tuloy na napagbibiruan naming amin na ang first prize. Malinis at magaling na kasi kaming sumayaw, natatawa naming nasasabi. Subalit talagang biro lamang namin iyonn sapagkat alam naming hindi magpapatalo ang ibang grupo. Sabi ko sa sarili ko: “Hindi baleng kulelat kami, ang mahalaga ay naipakita namin ang kakayahan namin sa mga espesyal na bisitang manonood.”

Nakita ko kung gaano ang pagpapahalaga at pagmamahal ng mga tao sa anibersaryo ng KKFI. Siyempre, tumulong ang mga iskolar sa mga gawain at paghahanda sa espesyal na araw na iyon.

Nang magsimula na ang programa ay nag-umpisa na rin akong kabahan. Unang sumayaw ang grupo ng Program Department na 1950s dance steps ang ipinakita. Ako ay lubhang humanga dahil sa galing at sabay-sabay nilang paggalaw. Bukod pa roon ay kahit magkaka-iba ang kanilang edad ay masasabi kong  mahusay sila.

Ang mga senior citizens ng Day Center ang sumunod dito na kuntodo naka-costume pa ng dekadang 60s, tunay na natuwa ang lahat sa kanilang presentasyon. Pagkatapos ay ang Resource Development Department (RDD) naman ang nagpakitang-gilas sa pamamagitan ng mga indak pang-1970s. Nagulat din ang lahat sa husay ng mga taga-Admin nang binuhay nilang muli ang mga dance steps ng 1980s.

Kami ang huling sumayaw (1990s ang sa amin). Ewan ko kung halata, pero kabado at nahihiya kami. Ganoon pa man, ibinigay naming ang lahat ng aming makakaya. Masaya kami nang matapos namin ang aming presentasyon nang maayos.

Nakita ko na nagustuhan ng mga manunuod sa aming ipinamalas na abilidad sa pagsayaw. Labis itong ikinatuwa ng aming grupo.

Napanood ko ang lahat ng grupo at ayon sa aking personal na hatol, ang grupong 1950s ang nakasungkit ng unang pwesto.

“Malamang, ikalawa lamang kami,” sabi nang walang halong lungkot o panghihinayang.

Ilang sandali pa ang lumipas at oras na ng paghahayag kung sino sa mga grupo ang nakakuha ng kung anong pwesto. Unang tinawag ang Day-C. Masaya na rin ang mga miyembro nito. Halatang masaya na sila na kabilang sila sa nakapagbigay ng kaligayahan sa mga dumalo ng anibersaryo ng KKFI.

Nagulat ako nang ang akala kong magiging kampeon ang sumunod na tinawag. Lalo tuloy akong kinabahan.

“Baka kami na ang susunod na tatawagin,” bulong ko sa sarili.

Inanunsyo ang grupong 1980s bilang ookupa ng ikatlong pwesto. Dalawang grupo na lamang ang natira at isa kami sa mga ito!

Sa gitna ng di magkamayaw na pagsigaw dahil sa excitement at in-announce ang nagwagi ng ikalawang puwesto—ang grupong 1970s. Kami ang kampeon!

Gulat na gulat kami ng aking mga kasama! Hindi namin ito inaasahan. Labis-labis na saya ang naramdaman namin sa pagkakataong iyon. Salamat, KKFI! Salamat sa panel of judges na ang tatlong miyembro ay mga kasapi ng KKFI.

Isa akong pinagpalang kabataan, hindi dahil sa nanguna sa sayawan, kundi dahil sa isa ako—o kaming mga iskolar—sa mga naging parte ng buhay ng KKFI. Mapalad ako dahil sila ang ikalawa kong pamilya. Mapalad ako dahil mayroon akong KKFI na nagbigay sa akin ng oportunidad upang mapalago ko ang aking sarili. Mapalad ako dahil mayroon akong KKFI na patuloy na sumusuporta sa akin upang mas lumago ang aking kaalaman hanggang sa patuloy na maging mabuting tao at patuloy na mangarap upang maabot ang ninanais sa buhay.

Mapalad ako nang sobra at labis-labis kong ipinagpapa-salamat dahil nakilala at nailapit ako sa Diyos. Kaya naman masasabi kong lubos akong pinagpala. Sobrang ipinagpapa-salamat ko sa Diyos at sa KKFI!

 

RISING FROM THE DEAD

by Glenda B. Gutierrez

 

“We now live outside of the cemetery,” says Anna B. Villegas, 32, apparently with proud air about her.

Anna is referring to the Manila North Cemetery (MNC), where her family used to live. To her and thousands of others who reside there, the life-goal has been to be able to own a house or at least rent a place outside of the MNC.

Anna’s dream came true because of the $4,000 livelihood grant that the Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation Inc. (KKFI) received recently from the United Methodist Women (UMW).

On March 8, 2017, the grant was distributed to 13 recipients and Anna was one of them. She immediately bought a pedicab for her husband, Joselito, who now uses it to collect recyclable materials like plastic and glass bottles in Manila North Cemetery and neighboring communities.

Before acquiring the pedicab, the Villegas couple were caretakers of tombs in MNC.

“It was difficult living in the cemetery, especially when it rains and floods,” narrates Anna. “It is not safe there and there are a lot of drug addicts around.”

She says she and her family are now “happy to live in Caloocan City” albeit, still making both ends meet.

“Our monthly room rental is P2,000 plus P1,000 for electricity and water. My husband earns an average of P300-P400 a day, enough to meet the daily expenses,” she discloses, adding that Joselito works six days a week.

The Villegas family is blessed to receive a scholarship grant from a Korean national that benefits three of her four children, thereby augmenting the family income. She proudly says that her children are honor students: Krishen Keith Althea (Top 3), Kyle Dustin (Top 6) and Kristel Keith (Top 9). The youngest is yet to go to school.

Anna has her church, San Pancratio Parish in Caloocan City, for linking her to the generous Korean benefactor.

Anna wants the best for her family. Though she is a graduate of the Technical Education and Skills Development Authority (TESDA) Housekeeping Course, she wants to prioritize taking care of her family instead of working abroad.

She keeps on learning and has attended workshops on candle-making, fabric conditioner-making and dishwashing soap-making.

She is also a parent-leader of the Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) City Link since 2012.

Indeed, Anna is worth emulating. She and her husband continues to strive to improve their lives, and the first step came when they brought their family out of the cemetery.

 

HONORING GENERATIONS OF DORMITORY RESIDENTS

by Rev. Dr. Fe M. Torio

Text: Exodus 3:10, Deuteronomy 8:7-10, John 17:9-11,

I Corinthians 12:8-10, Romans 12:6-8, Ephesians 4:11

 

 

The celebration of anniversaries enable us to remember the times in the past, the accomplishments of the present, and the dreams of the future. It is then a privilege and honor to have been a part of the past here at KKFI from 1978-1982, in hoping to be of help for its goals at present, and to p articipate as long as I am able for its dreams in the future, with God’s help.

For our message in this 67th anniversary, I would like to invite you to be blessed and grasp the challenge of being honoured. When I asked about the theme or main topic, the first would strike the most, “Honoring.” I said to myself: I don’t deserve to be honoured.

However, the situation in the Roman state in the time of Paul reminded me about something” Menenius Agrippa convinced the lower class in earlier Rome that although they are less noticeable members (like the stomach), they were necessary; the upper and lower classes had different roles but equal importance; also, the Stoics said that the universe was like a body; and that, Paul referred to the unity of the body not to keep one group down but to tell all the Christians in Corinth to respect and appreciate one another.

Just a solitary eye or foot is useless, so is any member of a foundation or church apart from other Christians.

First, each member has a measure of faith. (Romans 12:6-8)

Second, each members is commissioned to carry out a mission (Ephesians 4:11)

Third, each member is sent to go. (Exodus 3:10)

Fourth, each member is to receive honor and be blessed (Deuteronomy 8:7-10)

Let us consider the points one after the other before you are invited by sleep. This hour is an holy hour. Just wake up when time comes for us to bond together for our favourite activity in our dorm events: Eating time. Yes, I remember fully that there is no activity without it. We always contribute for it.

 

First, each member has a measure of faith (Romans 12:6-8)

Each of us here has a measure of faith. Whatever then is our profession or has become of ourselves after we came from this institution, returning here to celebrate together again, is a measure of faith. We did what we can in proportions to our faith. What is faith? Faith gives us the important rules for life: to know ourselves, accept ourselves, to accept the gift that God gave us, and to use that gift as it is his or her bounded duty and his/her God-given privilege to make his/her own contribution to the common good.

We do not get very far in this world until we know what we can do and what we cannot do. An honest assessment of one’s own capabilities, without conceit and without false modesty, is one of the first essentials of a useful life.

We trusted this institution to help us fulfil our dreams. We have faith that we can make it, and we did! We have learned from our ups and downs in our studies, in our relationships with others – our fellow dorm residents, the staff and business office, our visitors, our school environment and all around us – how to handle them in connection to our daily needs, and in our growth towards maturity especially in stretching our time, cash allowances, as well as brains so that, we will succeed in our endeavour to  finish requirements on time and if late, prevent ourselves away from failure, the least that we would like to happen to us in our stay in the dorm.

And most of us, we have faith in God who guides and gives everything we need during our stay her through its ministry to each and every one of us, remember?

When somebody celebrates his/her birthday, we pray and sing for them; when one is sick, a dorm resident officer will offer a visit or prayer; when one’s allowance is delayed, the staff shared a hand to lift one’s predicament. The faith of each one is measured by meeting each one’s needs, and to God be the glory. You have been a part of these activities, you deserve the honor today.

Second, each member is commissioned to carry out a mission (Ephesians 4:11)

There is a spark of God in every living creature. Thus, you are commissioned to carry out a mission, as God has mission to love the world. Paul is saying here that a man must accept himself; but even if he finds that the contribution he has to offer will be unseen and unknown, without praise and without prominence, he must make that contribution, certain that it is essential, and that without it, life and the world can never be what they were meant to be. Our families, our workplace, our churches, name it and you have it, without YOU and I WHO SUBMITTED TO A MEASURE OF FAITH IN GOD, each one of us, LIFE AND THE WORLRD will never be WHAT THEY WERE MEANTH TO BE.

Sometime, I marvel why people had charisma. It is because God gave the gift to you, and thus, you are called to be an instrument to use such gift for those whom He loves and cares. Don’t you like that? We are commissioned to carry out a mission. Such mission is for you to discover and uncover. Maybe, some of us had been nearing the end of the fulfilment of such mission. Others maybe are still starting while still others, they are on the process of the full blast of accomplishing what had been entrusted to them. Whichever we belong, we are to be faithful in carrying them out.

Brothers and sisters, we share a common focus and basis of authority as bearer’s of Christ’s message, out mission. We are therefore sent to go.

Third, each member is sent to go (Exodus 3:10)

Paul is really saying that whatever gift a man has, that gift comes from God. He calls the gift charismata. In the New Testament, a charisma is something given to a man by God which the man himself could not have acquired or attained. It is a personal, individual gift given to him by God. In point of fact, life is like that. For example, a man might practice for a lifetime and yet never play the piano like Kentner or Pouishnoff. These men has more than practice; they have the something plus, the charisma which is the gift of God. Do you have that something plus? If you have, what would you do? We are sent to go! Our skills was not so much achieved as given. We owe it to God, and we need to use it. The motive to use such something plus should not be by our own personal prestige but the conviction to go and share to others in need, our neighbors.

Daily, we can share Christ to others so that they can know Him in their hearts. Daily, we can be bringers of service to our fellowmen in whatever way we can. Daily, we can spur others on to the joy of life in Christ by our encouragement. Daily, we can be simple and generous, delights in the sheer pleasure of giving for giving’s sake, without desire of gold or promise of self-satisfaction.  Daily, we can have sense of responsibility and zeal in their hearts. Daily, we can give grace through forgiveness, based on love and kindness.

Yes, daily, we go about our life as usual, but with a measure of faith, we are commissioned to carry out a mission to go. Ultimately, we are motivated and developed to go and be responsible daily.,

Fourth, each member is to receive honor and be blessed (Deuteronomy 8:7-10)

Were you able to watch MISSION POSSIBLE from 12 midnight to 12:30 last July 18? Yes, after sharing her experience of being widowed twice at the age of 19 and left with four children, and moved on with the help of ABS-CBN. What about that? What have we done this past 67 years or so? We do receive honor and be blessed by God.

Let us review the promise of God to the Israelites:

  1. A land of wheat and barley, vines and pomegranates and fig trees, olive trees, and honey
  2. A land in which you will eat bread without scarcity, in which you will lack nothing, a land whose stones are iron, and out of whose hills you can dig copper
  3. You shall eat and be full, and you shall bless the Lord your God for the good land He has given you.

These promises will be ours also as we continue to obey the voice of the LORD our God. What is the voice of God? Therefore, Go:

You and I should have a feeling of indebtedness to God. The more we recognize our indebtedness, that we are blessed and received honor, the deeper should we desire to share for that service, even if it meant death. In Philippines 1:21 Paul said: For me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.

My dear friends, fellow former dorm residents, brothers and sisters in Christ, we are endowed with the privilege to stay and be a part of this institution. We left successful with the courses we took and the life to chose. Now, we returned not only to reminisce and celebrate, but we are commissioned to carry on, keep on going, doing faithfully whatever had been entrusted to us to do by God.

With high technologies at present, still I believe we have a role to play in pursuing our dream for a better world. Let us have a share and participate for this goal. Our prayers, talents, resources, time and gifts – let us use to honor God above all.

Congratulations to one and all! May God continually bless us all, dorm residents and KKFI Family without them, we are helpless. Thank you again for giving yourselves unselfishly for us whom our parents entrusted to your care. May God empower you more, now and in the years to come.

Happy 6th anniversary.

In the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Amen.

 

 

 

NURTURING DORMITORY RESIDENTS THROUGH THE DECADES

by Goody Mercado
Chairperson, KKFI Board of Trustees

(This message was shared as the Welcome Remarks to the 67th Founding Anniversary of Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation Inc. yesterday, July 20, 2017 where the management honored the dormitory residents from 1950 to 2005.)

 

KKFI anniversary celebrations have become an annual event that the members of the Board of Trustees and the staff look forward to. Every year, the management could think of twists that surprise everyone. I remember anniversary celebrations that recognized the past Executive Directors, Board members, loyal staff members, institutional and individual partners, and, last years, ALS passers.

This year, we are honouring an unsung hero in the whole scheme of things of Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation Inc. I’m referring to the Kapatiran Dormitory. We honour, too, its staff, past and present. Together with them, of course, are the dormitory residents who, through their patronage of the Kapatiran dormitory, wittingly or unwittingly financed the social development programs of Kapatiran.

You see, 100 percent of the income of the Kapatiran dormitory goes to the budget for programs, which help various marginalized and underprivileged groups in Manila, Bulacan and other places. This is the day we recognize and honour them. Congratulations!

Our theme is, “Nurturing Dorm Residents through the Decades.” I wonder how many students and reviewers the Kapatiran dorm have housed through its 50 or 60 years of existence. And I wonder where they are now. They must be successful and rich by now. Wherever they are and whatever economic state they are in, I guess this anniversary celebration is for them.

This may also serve as a prayer that they will continue to enjoy health and life abundant wherever they may be. Now, to those who are presently here, I heard we are in for a big surprise. I believe the staff prepared something special for us. I heard this is not just a simple celebration but a feast! Not necessarily a feast of foods (although they have prepared delightful array of them), but of period songs and dances made to satisfy our ears and eyes. I guess they are determined to make this day truly unforgettable. We will see by the end of the day.

I do hope they won’t disappoint us. Am I jumping the gun on you, my dear staff members? I’m sorry.

Kidding aside, I welcome you all to the 67th founding anniversary of KKFI, otherwise known as our beloved Kapatiran. Under the leadership of Nancy, we expect more success, more abundance and more fun for many, many years to come!

Thank you and enjoy!